Conditions

What are the right conditions for your growth? They aren't necessarily the same as someone else's.

Just as different plants need different amounts of sunlight and shade, water, type of soil, we also need different conditions to thrive. When we look at other people, do we envy them? We shouldn't, because what suits them may not suit us. We may think that if we had this, that, or the other, life would be better, but would it really? We may think that we want fame and fortune, but would that bright sunlight suit us? Might we be happier with a better balance between direct sunlight and shade? 

Work out what makes you thrive, and aim for that, without looking at what everyone else has.